The 21-Day Challenge More than 2,119 Men Have Used to Get Over Their Ex and Go From the “Nice Guy” She Didn’t Want to the High Status Man She Wants Back

For men going through a breakup or divorce -- who’ve had ENOUGH of the feminized breakup guides, unhelpful advice from family, and “pick up artist” nonsense -- and are ready to discover the cold hard TRUTH about getting over your breakup and becoming the MAN she wishes she could get back.



My name’s John.

And two years ago, this was my girlfriend.

When this picture was taken… We'd been together for more than 11 years.

And at the time, I thought she was my soulmate, my ride or die, my everything…

John's Ex with the man she was having an affair with

I can still remember the day we first met...

… Two young and dumb 20-somethings out for a night at an exclusive lounge neither of us could really afford.

I saw her from across the room and grabbed my best friend in excitement…

“Dude I know this sounds crazy… but that girl over there... She’s going to be my wife!” I told him.


Looking across the room, he laughed and patted me on the back…

“Keep dreaming buddy,” he said, “She’s way out of your league. There’s no way she’d be with a guy like you”

He was halfway right…

She was definitely out of my league.

But I didn’t care… Because before I even said, “Hello” I could just feel that we were meant to be together.

I knew that she was going to be the love of my life.

And as I walked across the dance floor to introduce myself… I could never have guessed what would happen next.

That innocent “Hello” on the dance floor turned into a 9-year relationship that most guys can only dream of.

It was like some crazy steamy combination of Cinderella meets 50 Shades of Grey.

And it was awesome.

For those 9 years, we were inseparable…

We did everything together… shared our hopes and dreams together… bought a house together… Heck, we even adopted a dog together!

For 9 years… I gave my heart and soul to the woman I thought I would be with, “Till death do us part.”

But then…

The fairytale started turning into a nightmare.

I don’t remember exactly when it happened, but as time wore on, something in our relationship started to change.

  • She started seeming distant and cold and it felt like the passion she felt for me was fading from a roaring bonfire into a tiny ember
  • The crazy nights and almost disgusting displays of physical affection started to disappear… Until eventually, she would pull away every time I tried to hug her and dodge ever kiss, giving me little more than a friendly peck on the cheek
  • She went from begging for my attention to seeming “inconvenienced” every time I asked her on a date or tried to spend an evening together
  • And because her career had finally started taking off (something I was super proud of at the time) she was spending most weekends away on business trips

At first, I thought it was just normal…

I mean, I couldn’t really expect the honeymoon phase to last for more than a decade, could I?

But the longer this went on… the more I couldn’t shake the feeling that something wasn’t right.

How could things go from feeling like this woman was the love of my life… to feeling like I was an unwanted guest in “her” home?

I didn’t know how to explain it, but every time I looked at her, my heart felt like it was slowly being ripped out of my chest…

… One half-hearted “I love you” and passionless kiss at a time.

So I did what almost every guy does when he’s afraid that he’s about to lose the woman he loves…

I doubled down on my efforts.

  • I came home with fresh flowers and expensive gifts almost every day of the week.
  • I started ticking off every “honey do” on the list and spent most of my free time running around like a little servant boy to try and make her happy.
  • I stopped going out with friends and spending weekends out doing “my thing” so we could spend more time together (even though she would regularly bail on the date nights I planned for us to stay late at the office).
  • I showered her with love and affection, telling her almost every day that she was “The center of my world”.

But it felt like the harder I tried, the less she cared.

“Do you still love me?” I asked her one night, barely fighting back the tears.

“Of course I do, babe” she rolled her eyes and patted me on the back like I was some sort of sad toddler.

“I’ve just been extra busy with work lately, but everything’s fine.”


By that point…

I’d gotten desperate.

And I wanted to do anything I could to show her how much I loved her… to keep the passion alive and to show her that I was still the man of her dreams.

So… in the spirit of doubling down on the same stupid strategy that wasn’t working…


I planned an extravagant weekend getaway for her birthday.

Renting one of the swankiest beach houses I could find in her favorite city and scheduling reservations at some of her favorite restaurants.

And since I knew she would be working from home that Friday afternoon, I decided to leave work early to surprise her.

“This is it!” I told myself.

“THIS will fix everything.”

But surprise, surprise... I was wrong.

I pulled into our driveway and skipped to the front door, reservations and a bouquet of fresh flowers in hand.

And well… It’s probably not too hard to guess what happened next.

I walked through the front door, expecting to see her hard at work behind her desk…

Only to be greeted by the sound of ecstatic screaming coming from the bedroom…

… And the sight of a pair of leather boots that certainly weren’t mine.


Oh, and that picture I shared earlier?

Well… that wasn’t me standing next to her.

That was the “Mr. Boots” she'd been cheating on me with for more than 16 months!

When I walked through that door and came face to face with the truth I’d been trying to escape for almost two years…

… I was crushed.

It felt like my life was over and all of my hopes and dreams of a happy family, white picket fence, and a relationship that lasted “till death did us part,” had been shoved through a wood chipper.

I wish I could say I confronted her. That I beat Boots into a pulp, stood up for myself, and kicked her out of the house (that I was paying for).

But the truth is… I didn’t.

I couldn’t even bring myself to go into the bedroom.


I left my house crying and sent her a text later that day letting her know what had happened.

I booked myself into a hotel room for the next month and called in sick from work until they threatened to fire me.

For weeks, I could barely sleep. I couldn’t eat.

Most days, I just laid in bed staring at the ceiling… wondering where I went wrong.

Wondering how she could do this to me.

The man who had stood by her, supported her, and given her everything she could have ever wanted for more than a decade.

But the worst part of it all wasn’t the sleepless nights, the days spent trying to keep it together at the office, or even the pain of losing my ex to another man.

It was the way the breakup made me feel about myself.

Emasculated. Lost. Ashamed. Weak. Hopeless.


Angry at her for betraying me. Angry at the man she betrayed me with. Angry at myself for not seeing it sooner.

But most of all, I was angry that… no matter how much I hated her… I still loved her.

I still wanted her back.

I’d called her a few times since we broke up, hoping that we might be able to work things out…

That she would feel sorry, realize her mistake, and beg for me to take her back.

… But that didn’t happen.

She never even bothered answering my calls.

She just sent me one heartless text saying, “I’m sorry you had to find out like this. I guess this means we’re through. Goodbye John.”

For a while…

I decided to take (what I thought was) the “manly” path.

To simply suffer in silence and bear the pain on my own…

To try and logically explain away the pain I was feeling and beat myself over the head with outdated platitudes:


But then late one night…

While I was laying in bed alone.

I saw a post of the two of them together on her social media.

And when I read the caption, my heart sunk to the floor.

“I’ve never had a man treat me the way you do boo 😘. I’m so in love with you.”

It hadn’t even been two weeks since she walked out on me…

Taking more than a decade of love, hard work, and sacrifice with her.


… And now she was in friggin love with HIM?!

Those two sentences cut me deeper than anything I’d ever felt before.

For what felt like an eternity, I couldn’t breathe. I just sat there, staring dumbly at the screen…

… Hoping that if I squinted hard enough, the words would magically shift around and read, “I still love you John. I miss you. I’m sorry.”

But they didn’t.

She was in love with him.

She was gone.

And in that moment, I knew she wasn’t coming back.

I couldn’t take it anymore.

The b.s. “Tough guy” routine wasn’t working.

I needed help.

And so I called the only person I could think of.

My friend Austin.

Austin had been working in the men’s personal development and relationship space for almost ten years.

He’d read every book, attended every mastermind, and bought every course on the topic of becoming a stronger, more confident, and high-value man.

And even though he was a decade younger than me…

He’d quickly become one of my greatest mentors and teachers.

I knew that if anyone could help me get through this.

… It was him.


So I picked up my phone, dialed his number, and told him everything.

He listened quietly for more than an hour as I spilled my guts about the affair, about the pain, about the way I was feeling as a man…

I told him how much I wanted the relationship back.

How I was willing to forgive her.

How I wanted to work on things and win her back.

And then he simply said.

“You’re missing the point.”

“Your relationship ended because you didn’t show up as the man she needed you to be”

“If you try to get back with her now, it might work for a few weeks or even a few months… but eventually you’ll end up exactly where you are right now.”

“Because right now, you aren’t capable of showing up as the type of man who can keep a high quality woman in his life. The relationship you had is gone, and it’s never coming back.”

“Besides… you should respect yourself too much to try and get back with someone who didn’t even have the decency to break up with you before sleeping with someone else.”


His words stung.

But I knew he was right.

“I can help you get through this,” he continued, “And I can help you do it a lot faster and easier than you think… “

“But only if you forget everything you think you know about relationships and masculinity… and agree to trust me and take action on everything I share.”

“Can you do that?”

I gulped and nodded my head (almost forgetting that he couldn’t see me).

And then responded, “Yes… I can”

“Good”, he said, “Then let’s begin.”

And he proceeded to download almost ten years of lessons and insights that made all of the puzzle pieces come together in a way I’d never imagined they could.


The Relationship is NEVER the Problem (So Fixing It CAN'T Be the Solution)

The first and most lessons Austin taught me was that the way most men look at relationships is completely BACKWARD.

It’s apparent even in the way we describe them…

  • “She’s my better half”
  • “You complete me”
  • “Happy wife, happy life”
  • “You’re my everything”
  • “I couldn’t live without you”

All of these “romantic” sayings are just code for:

“I’m scared to be alone… I don’t know who I am and I need someone else in my life to make me feel ok.”

And the result of these beliefs is that most people waste years of their lives in dramatic, toxic, and exhausting romances.

All because they fail to realize that, when you do it right…

… Relationships should be EASY!

When you’re a healthy, whole, and happy man dating a healthy, whole, and happy woman… keeping and growing the love you share happens almost automatically!

You’ll still have challenges and need to make sacrifices and grow inside of your relationship (just like you’d still have challenges at your dream job).


Ultimately, the relationship is easy because you’re ready for it.

You’re the type of man your dream woman needs and she knows that you have the goods.

The problem is…

We’re conditioned to believe that relationships are hard.

And that, if there’s a problem, it’s because you and your partner aren’t “compatible.”

But this is rarely the case…

99% of Failed Relationships Happen Because One (Or Both) of the People In that Relationship Are Using the Relationship to Fill a Hole Inside of THEMSELVES.

When you’re a confident, secure, purpose driven man…

A man who knows who he is, what he stands for, and views himself as someone who is deserving of an amazing woman.

… Attracting the right partner (and filtering out partners who aren’t a good fit) is typically pretty easy.


You won’t attract partners you need to “fix” or who fill your life with drama.

You know how to set boundaries and balance living your own life while also sharing that life with her.

And most importantly…

Because you’re on your own path and purpose, confident, fulfilled, and growing (whether you’re in a relationship or not)

… It’s easier to KEEP your dream woman in your life because you’re continuing to show up as the man she fell in love with year after year after year.

The only way to change the types of relationships you attract into your life is for you to change the type of MAN you’re being in your relationships.

But the good news is…

… Making these changes doesn’t have to be hard.


Becoming a High Status Man is Easy When You Know How to Rewrite Your “Internal Operating System”

You see… when Austin agreed to help me get over my breakup and put the pieces of my life back together.

I thought he would start by telling me to “Go to the gym” or “Approach five new women a day.”

But he didn’t…

Instead, he told me the story of Sigmund Freud, an Austrian neurologist and the Founder of Psychoanalysis.


If you know anything about Freud…

You probably know that a lot of his ideas were patently bat crap crazy.

But he made one discovery that would completely revolutionize our understanding of the human mind and WHY we do the things we do.

… The power of the subconscious mind.

What Freud theorized and other scientists later confirmed is this…

Most of the decisions and actions you take on a daily basis are NOT the result of conscious choice. They’re the result of SUBCONSCIOUS programming that stems from childhood, evolution, and environment.

In other words…

Every single one of us has a specific “operating system” inside of us that’s running the show and making decisions most of the time.

If you’ve ever:

  • Made the same mistake over and over and over again (promising “I’ll never do this again!” each time)... this is why.
  • Spent years dreaming about a big goal or change you wanted to make in your life without ever taking action to make that dream a reality… this is why.
  • Or even if you achieved a big goal or dream only to sabotage yourself and end up right back where you started… this is why.
  • Tried to make a big change in your life and come up short when you were three feet from this finish line… this is why.
  • Because for better or worse, the quality of your life is largely determined by the quality of the “code” running your subconscious operating system.

And unless you won the genetic lottery and had “perfect parents” who instilled world class beliefs and mindsets into you from an early age…

Chances are good that the “code” running your life is FILLED with bugs and viruses.

I know mine was.

And it wasn’t until Austin began to teach me how to not only IDENTIFY the faulty program ruining my life…

But how to use specific strategies to begin to rewrite and rewire them that my life started to change.

And it changed FAST.

When I learned how to untangle my subconscious mind and build a winning “operating system,” my life took off like a smart car with a turbo charged V8.

In a matter of months I went from:

  • Depressed, anxious, and crying myself to sleep at night.
  • Sending weak, needy, and mean texts to my ex every day.
  • Feeling lost, confused, and out of touch with my purpose.
  • Feeling like I didn’t deserve the life or partner I wanted.


  • Feeling confident, unstoppable, and on fire every day.
  • Feeling grateful that my ex had cheated (because it helped me grow as a man and create a life that was better than i could have ever imagined).
  • Knowing my purpose and mission in life and living in alignment with it every day.
  • Feeling for the first time in my life that, “I know who I am and what I stand for and I deserve the best this life has to offer.”

It wasn’t easy.

And it didn’t happen overnight.

But day-by-day, Austin helped rewrite and update the operating system of my life until I became an entirely different man.

What I learned over the course of the months we spent working together was this…

When you upgrade your Operating System and reprogram the thoughts, beliefs, and scripts running your life… transformation becomes effortless.

I’m not saying it doesn’t take work.

Rather that…

When the subconscious mind is on our side

… We actually want to do the work.

Instead of using willpower, gritting your teeth, and trying to force yourself into action.

You can simply become the type of person who actually enjoys taking the action required to level up your life.

I’m living proof of this.

And thanks to the work we did together…

  • I feel confident and grounded in my masculine identity. I know who I am and what I stand for.
  • I refuse to tolerate deception or second class behavior from ANYONE and I have clear boundaries that I uphold no matter what.
  • I managed to secure a promotion at work and move into one of the nicest apartments in the heart of downtown.
  • I’m happier, healthier, and more joyful than I’ve ever been.

But most importantly of all…

I’m free.

Free from the pain of the past.

Free from the regret… the guilt… the longing.

Free to be who I want and live life on my own terms, in my own way, and by my own rules.

… I’m a new man.

And after experiencing this transformation firsthand.

… I decided to approach Austin with an idea.


Because when I saw what happened in my life, I realized that the system he’d developed was bigger than just me and my breakup.

I asked him if he would be willing to turn the system he shared with me into a program that was accessible to every man on the planet.

Something that guys all over the world could use to not only get over their breakup…

… But use the pain of their experience as fuel to become the strongest, most confident, and most powerful version of themselves.

After months of convincing…

… He finally agreed.

And decided to partner with his coach, master coach and executive consultant Daniel Thomas Hind to bring it to life.

Between the two of them…

They tapped into more than 17 years of combined experience to create a life changing program for men all over the world.


The 21-Day


Get Over Your Ex (Or Get Her Back).
Become Your Strongest Self.
Live the Life You've Always Wanted.

Unbreakable walks you through the EXACT, paint-by-numbers transformation experience Austin shared with me.

It hands you a proven, step-by-step roadmap for compressing 10 years of growth and personal development into a few short weeks and becoming the type of man high-quality women crave.

Across 3 powerful modules (that only take 10-15 minutes a day) you’ll be equipped with everything you need to rewire your subconscious operating system, get over the pain of a breakup, and unlock a level of power, confidence, and masculine energy most men only dream of.


Simply show up every week. Watch the modules. Complete the exercises. And begin your evolution as a man.

Here’s What You’ll Find Inside.


Laying The Foundations Of Masculine Evolution

This first module is all about equipping you with the critical fundamentals.

You’ll get the big picture of masculine evolution so you understand how and why the Unbreakable framework is so effective at helping men rapidly transform and build the abundant dating life they’ve always craved.


You’ll discover:

  • The #1 most common pitfall that all but guarantees she’ll “fall out of love” and potentially move on to another man (ignore this and you’ll be stacking the deck against yourself).
  • The critical trait all truly masculine men develop that keeps their partner attracted (and even addicted) to them for years and decades after they get together.
  • How to interpret the “hidden signals” women send months before they end a relationship (so you can quickly course correct and avoid a breakup)
  • The truth about developing your masculine edge and identity (and why it has nothing to do with how much money you make, what car you drive, how big your muscles are, or how many women have shared your bedsheets)
  • Decoding “Evolutionary Mismatch Misery” and why 99% of weak and need behavior has NOTHING to do with mindset and everything to do with biology (miss this and you’re almost guaranteed to bang you head against a wall for years)

The Path To Rapid Healing

This module dives deep into the proven psychological and biological frameworks any man can use to not only heal from a breakup, but to level up every area of his life and identity.

This is where the rubber meets the road and you can discover the step-by-step action steps required to build unbreakable confidence, rewire your operating system, and achieve effortless evolution.

  • Taming the “Four Horsemen” of the masculine apocalypse and how to use a 2,500 year old Buddhist secret to get complete control of your emotions.
  • A Jesuit priests simple strategy for effortless transformation (this regularly saves men 10+ years of mindless work)
  • How to use a world renown Navy SEAL’s mental hack to quickly jump over the #1 block that sabotages a man’s relationships over and over and over again.
  • The 3-phase system for unlocking your “Masculine Biology” (this accelerates recovery from the inside out and allows you to use cutting edge biohacks to “unlock” your natural confidence and power)
  • Why 90% of the self-help gurus are WRONG about personal growth and evolution (and how to gamify transformation in an easy, fun, and automatic way)
  • A controversial psychiatrists most effective strategy to immediately rewire negative thoughts and build an elite and unstoppable mindset
  • 3 simple questions that can shatter negative beliefs and subconscious scripts in only five minutes.

Coming to Completion

In this module, we’ll walk you through the step-by-step process of mastering your masculine energy and unlocking the latent confidence, drive, and power that’s laying dormant inside of every man.


Specifically, we’ll cover:

  • Step-by-step how to rewrite your subconscious stories and remove the mental “blocks” keeping you trapped in self-sabotaging patterns and behaviors (no willpower, discipline, or hard work required)
  • The “Hemingway Method” for uncovering the true cause of your breakup (and ensuring you never repeat the same mistakes again)
  • How to use the “Italian Tune Up” to quickly tap into your “primal masculine” state and unlock greater confidence, purpose, and drive in every area of life.
  • What one of history’s most famous shooters can teach us about the mechanics of a breakup (hint: the way you feel isn’t your fault)
  • The “Three Letters” ritual that can help any man permanently recover from the pain of his breakup and step into a new identity as a powerful masculine leader

And Best of All… It Doesn’t Take Months or Years to See Results with This System

Many of our students are experiencing transformations within their first few days inside of the program.

After the first few days, you can develop an understanding of relationships and the polarity between the masculine and feminine that puts all of the puzzle pieces together in your head.

Things will just “click” and you may find yourself thinking, “Woah! THIS is what I was missing before!”

After the first two weeks, you’ll have access to a clear and actionable system for masculine evolution and personal transformation that goes far beyond what the self-help gurus and relationship counselors ever offered.

And after you finish the program…

You could be unrecognizable from the man you were just 21-days ago.


I know these might sound like bold claims. And they are.

But don’t just take our word for it. Here’s what just a few of our happy students had to say about the Unbreakable experience.

How You Can Get Your Hands on It for an Absolute Steal

To join their flagship 1-on-1 coaching programs, clients invest anywhere from $1,000 to $3,000 every MONTH to work with Austin and Daniel.

Up until now, that was the only way to get access to this system (that, or lucking out and being a personal friend like I was).

Originally, they’d planned to sell this program for $499.

Which would have been more than reasonable.

After all, what would it be worth to you to…

  • Have the confidence, purpose, and masculine edge you’ve been craving for so long.
  • Break the relationship sabotaging patterns and habits for GOOD.
  • Know with confidence that you’re capable of attracting and KEEPING your dream woman, your QUEEN, in your life.
  • Feel like you’ve finally reclaimed your fire and masculine spirit and unlocked the purpose and drive that have been missing from your life for so long.

$500? $1,000? $2,000? Or more?

However, I was able to convince Austin and Daniel to do something kinda ridiculous and offer this program for pennies.

Instead of investing $499, or $299, or even $99…

All that’s Required for You to Access the Unbreakable System Today is One Tiny Investment of


I know that every Tom, Dick, and Harry out there says this, but for us…

This truly isn’t about the money.

This is about transforming lives and becoming the go-to resource for men looking to evolve and grow into the strongest versions of themselves.

Which is why Austin and Daniel wanted to offer this program at a price that was accessible to almost anyone.

But I encourage you to act today…

And I know, I know…

This is the part of the show where most marketers and business owners will spoon feed you some nonsense about how they “Can’t offer this discount for long”

Or how they have a limited number of copies (of a digital program that’s literally limitless).


So we’ll just be honest…

The truth is… It’s NOT FREE for us to get this message out to the world.

We have to pay money to run ads like the one that got you to this page.

And even though we want to offer this for as small of an investment as possible… We can only offer it at this price if the math works.

So depending on how many men take action and how much it costs us to run these ads to the world… We may very well have to increase the price in the future.

Hopefully, we won’t.

But we genuinely don’t know…

So if you come back to this offer in a week or two and see that the price is $97, $147, or even $197…

… Please know that we’re just doing what we have to do to get something we deeply believe in out into the world.

Chances are… this is the lowest price we’ll ever be able to offer and if you’re serious about overcoming your breakup and transforming yourself as a man…

I strongly encourage you to join now.

Because if you take action on what we teach… you have nothing to lose.

Our “Unbreakable” 365 Day Money Back Guarantee

I’m not asking you to decide “Yes” or “No” today. I’m asking you to make a fully informed decision. That’s ALL.

But you can only make a fully informed decision from inside of the experience, not the outside.

So you get on the inside of the Unbreakable Experience and decide whether or not it’s truly valuable and delivers on the promises we’ve made today. If it is, you keep it. If not, no hard feelings. But it’s only AFTER clicking the button below and signing up that you will be able to make a decision.


You can’t make a fully informed decision right now for the same reason you don’t buy a house without seeing it first. And know this. We’re only happy if YOU are happy. Whether it’s 10-minutes from now or 10-months from now, if you aren’t happy with your investment, we aren’t happy.

Simply send an email to and say “Give me my money” and we’ll refund your purchase within one business day.

Since you can only make a guarantee like this one when you’re confident that what you have is the real deal, it should be pretty obvious that we’re confident that the Unbreakable Experience will help you grow into a stronger and more powerful man faster than any other system out there.

So what are you waiting for? Click the button below to try out Unbreakable and see for yourself what’s possible in just 21-days.

This Letter Is Ending and Now… You Have a Choice

Right now… you have a chance to join the Unbreakable experience and potentially:

  • Discover how to USE the way you’re feeling right now to rapidly transform yourself as a man and achieve a blissful and joyful relationship in the future.
  • Unlock the keys to masculine power and access a one of a kind system for experiencing a whole new level of growth and freedom.
  • End the heartbreak, lonely nights, and desperate longing that plagues so many men faster and easier than you ever believed possible.

And if you’ll put in the work you can find out what it feels like to…

  • Achieve unbreakable confidence, certainty, and clarity in your masculine identity and purpose.
  • Feel--maybe for the first time in your life--like you are enough as a man and no longer need the validation or approval of others to thrive.
  • Develop abundance in your dating life and enter into a relationship with your future Queen from a place of power and choice… not scarcity or fear of being alone.

That’s certainly a choice that I would make in your position.

But you can also choose not to join the program and continue going through life as you are today.

You can try to figure it all out for yourself and put in the same amount of effort and research we did to create this experience.

And guess what?

If that’s your decision then we respect that.

We don’t believe in high-pressure sales or manipulative tactics.

You should do whatever you feel is right for you.

It might work out for you and it might not.

If you do decide to go it alone, do all the hard work yourself, and then realize later down the line that you still need help…

… We’ll still be here. And we’ll welcome you into the fold with open arms.

Whatever decision you make, just know that what we’ve shared with you today can be the turning point in your life…

It can set you on a completely new path and give you the tools and strategies you need to become the man you’ve always wanted to be.

We want that for you.

And whether you join today, six months from now, or never…

We want to thank you for allowing us to share this with you and wish you all the best… whatever decision you might make.

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